Adolescence is a transformative stage that bridges childhood and adulthood, bringing significant physical, psychological, emotional, and social changes. During this time, young people begin to shed their childish behaviors as they develop their identity and seek independence.

However, despite their growing confidence and desire for autonomy, adolescence is when they need our presence, guidance, and support the most. Their actions often serve as an unspoken plea for structure, direction, and clear boundaries, especially in a world dominated by instant gratification, social media, and a culture that prioritizes pleasure over effort can lead them to avoid waiting and difficulties and seek quick results, without embracing the necessary processes.

As parents, our role extends beyond mere observation and supervision; we must actively engage in our children’s lives. It is essential to know their friends, paying attention to their conversations, understanding their interests and concerns, and celebrating their achievements. It also means involving them in activities that instill values, such as music, sports, or church youth groups. Additionally, we must be prepared to answer their questions with wisdom and love, as our words can either strengthen or weaken their self-esteem and confidence. While they may seek to build relationships outside the home, family remains their primary point of reference.

Parents, it is a moment to reflect and ask ourselves: What have we done? What are we doing? What more can we do? The Word of God encourages us not to become weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9). As parents, our responsibility is to nurture and guide our children, ensuring that home remains a place of direction, security, and joy.

Keep your eyes on your teenager and walk alongside them during this pivotal stage of life!

 

By: MECS Department of Psychology